Episode 270

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20th Aug 2026

Ghostlighting Isn’t Just a Dating Problem | The InSight Out Show | Ep. 270

Dating already has ghosting. Now there’s “ghostlighting,” when someone disappears without explanation, then shows back up weeks or months later acting like nothing happened. Instead of acknowledging the silence, they minimize it, explain it away, or leave the other person wondering whether they’re overreacting.

But maybe ghostlighting points to something bigger than dating culture. We’ve become pretty skilled at avoiding uncomfortable conversations, whether it’s with someone we’re dating, a coworker, a neighbor, or even a friend. Disappearing can feel easier than dealing with conflict, but easier doesn’t always mean healthier. What would change if we became people willing to have the conversation we’d rather avoid?

Scripture (NIV): Ephesians 4:15 – “Speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.”

Reflection Questions:

Is there a conversation you’ve been avoiding because disappearing, delaying, or staying quiet feels easier?

What would it look like to tell the truth with both courage and kindness?

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Devin Almonte

Devin Almonte is a broadcaster, journalist, and podcaster dedicated to media-driven discipleship. As the host of InSight Out and Encouraging Star Stories, she challenges audiences to think deeply about faith, culture, and purpose, offering clarity for the mind, joy for the heart, and truth for the times.

A Colson Fellow and graduate of the World Journalism Institute, Devin has written for The Stream and other outlets, integrating theology, worldview, and storytelling to address today’s pressing issues.

With a diverse background in business, broadcasting, film, commercial work, and media production, she has worked with companies like QVC, HSN, and Macy’s Merchandising Group in media, journalism, and product development. Her experience in storytelling, faith-based media, and on-screen work enables her to engage audiences in a way that is both thought-provoking and deeply relatable, inspiring a Christ-centered life.

Devin is also the founder of InSight Out Media, a faith-based company committed to media-driven discipleship, equipping people to see the world through a biblical lens and live out their faith with confidence.