Episode 164

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11th Feb 2026

Anchor Points | Ep. 164 | When You Apologize and They Still Won’t Forgive You

Have you ever apologized and been met with silence, distance, or an icy stare?

You did the hard thing. You owned it. You said you were sorry.

And yet nothing changed.

That moment can mess with your head and your heart.

It’s hard when you offer a sincere apology and the other person refuses to accept it. In today’s Anchor Point, we talk about the freedom that comes from understanding where your responsibility ends and God’s work begins.

In this episode, Devin reflects on the truth that forgiveness cannot be forced and peace is not always mutual.

Scripture (NIV):

Romans 12:18 “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”

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Have you ever done everything you could to make peace and it still was not received?

What helped you release the outcome and trust God with the rest?

Let’s talk about forgiveness, boundaries, and the freedom that comes from obedience.

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Devin Almonte

Devin Almonte is a broadcaster, journalist, and podcaster dedicated to media-driven discipleship. As the host of InSight Out and Encouraging Star Stories, she challenges audiences to think deeply about faith, culture, and purpose, offering clarity for the mind, joy for the heart, and truth for the times.

A Colson Fellow and graduate of the World Journalism Institute, Devin has written for The Stream and other outlets, integrating theology, worldview, and storytelling to address today’s pressing issues.

With a diverse background in business, broadcasting, film, commercial work, and media production, she has worked with companies like QVC, HSN, and Macy’s Merchandising Group in media, journalism, and product development. Her experience in storytelling, faith-based media, and on-screen work enables her to engage audiences in a way that is both thought-provoking and deeply relatable, inspiring a Christ-centered life.

Devin is also the founder of InSight Out Media, a faith-based company committed to media-driven discipleship, equipping people to see the world through a biblical lens and live out their faith with confidence.